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4 Tips for Approaching Men
You see an attractive man and you’d like to get him to notice you. But what do you do? Men need encouragement to know it’s safe to approach you because more often than not, they get rejected by women. Here are four tips to let him know you’re interested.
Tip 1. Smile at a man you’re attracted to and make eye contact with him. Try to hold for at least five seconds. It will seem like an eternity but it’s a signal to him that you’re interested.
Tip 2. Get his attention by asking him a question. Remember, men are hardwired to help women. Here are examples of questions you can ask to get the dialogue going between the two of you...
- You’re at a happy hour with a friend and a man sits next to you and orders red wine. Ask him about it and whether he would recommend it.
- You’re at a coffee shop. Ask if the chair next to him is taken. Or if you’re in line, ask what his favorite coffee is.
- You’re at a dog park. Ask if he could recommend a veterinarian.
Tip 3. Complement him. “Excuse me, I just wanted to tell you that’s a nice jacket.” Compliment him, and once he says ‘thank you’, walk away and go on about your night. Trust me, he’ll find you.
Tip 4. Use Your Wing Wo-Man: Women travel in packs and within those packs, there’s an unwritten rule that when you plan to step out with the girls, everyone is expected to be emotionally equipped to be the wing-woman if needed. If he’s got friends, take your designated wing-woman and introduce her to his friend as if you’re the confident matchmaker helping out your shy friend. She’ll already know to engage in conversation setting her fears and pride aside as you and your target chat it up and break the ice on the side.
These four tips will give you the opportunity to interact with a lot of men and you never know. One just might turn out to be your Mr. Right.